Jay has decided he really likes Pregnant Jessica. Apparently I'm more direct, better at making decisions and less apologetic at making those decisions that are good for my family. I have less tolerance for attitude and co-dependence. I am much more focused. I guess I just realized I've been taking care of other people for a really long time, and now it's my turn to focus on my family. I love my family, and my friends, but I'm a little more cautious about what I offer to do. I mean if there ever is a time to be selfish, I feel like this is it!
Do you know how hard it is to get 35 grams of fiber daily?? Yesterday I actually consciously thought about every single thing I ate, and tried to count up the fiber. Good thing I had a late-night bowl of cereal, otherwise I wouldn't have made it! Still not much in the way of cravings, not any more than usual that is. I'm really hoping not to turn into a beast. Only time will tell :-)
Friday, April 25, 2008
Wednesday, April 23, 2008
What the experts say, 8 weeks
This is what babycenter.com says about my baby at 8 weeks...
Your baby is now 5/8 of an inch long, about the size of a kidney bean. New this week: Webbed fingers and toes are poking out from your baby's hands and feet, his eyelids practically cover his eyes, breathing tubes extend from his throat to the branches of his developing lungs, and his "tail" is just about gone. His arms have lengthened, too, and his hands are now flexed at the wrist and meet over his heart. His knee joints have formed, and his feet may be long enough to meet in front of his body. In his brain, nerve cells are branching out to connect with one another, forming primitive neural pathways.
The human body is pretty amazing!
Your baby is now 5/8 of an inch long, about the size of a kidney bean. New this week: Webbed fingers and toes are poking out from your baby's hands and feet, his eyelids practically cover his eyes, breathing tubes extend from his throat to the branches of his developing lungs, and his "tail" is just about gone. His arms have lengthened, too, and his hands are now flexed at the wrist and meet over his heart. His knee joints have formed, and his feet may be long enough to meet in front of his body. In his brain, nerve cells are branching out to connect with one another, forming primitive neural pathways.
The human body is pretty amazing!
Tuesday, April 22, 2008
8 weeks (and a few days!)
Well I just got back from my trip to the states. Man, was that hard! Not only NOT telling everyone, but trying to eat right and get enough sleep and stay hydrated was NEARLY impossible. I had a small bout with what I thought was morning sickness, but I think it was more of my body just rejecting what I ate since it only happened once.
I did pick up some fun baby books (baby names, marriage after baby, etc.) and found the PERFECT baby book. I looked at about 20 and kept thinking, "This is just not what I want!" before I finally found one. I also picked up baby's first pair of Carolina pajamas; boy or girl, this kid's a Tarheel! I figure everything else can wait until Jay is home, and until we know if we need a pink or blue hat!
I'm finding the constant reminder of pregnancy so far is indigestion. Bummer! I'm hoping that being back home and being on a better schedule with sleeping and three normal meals will help balance that out. I registered for a baby website today that will send me updates on what's going on in my belly every week. It also has topics of interest based on how far along you are, so I love it already. Thanks Lauren!
I made my first trip to Babies 'R Us and I will NOT be going back without Jay! I can see how I could spend all day (and all our deployment money!) in that place. It's overwhelming and exciting all at the same time. I feel like I've known FOREVER that I was pregnant, and that at the same time, nine months isn't nearly enough time to prepare for a baby!
I did pick up some fun baby books (baby names, marriage after baby, etc.) and found the PERFECT baby book. I looked at about 20 and kept thinking, "This is just not what I want!" before I finally found one. I also picked up baby's first pair of Carolina pajamas; boy or girl, this kid's a Tarheel! I figure everything else can wait until Jay is home, and until we know if we need a pink or blue hat!
I'm finding the constant reminder of pregnancy so far is indigestion. Bummer! I'm hoping that being back home and being on a better schedule with sleeping and three normal meals will help balance that out. I registered for a baby website today that will send me updates on what's going on in my belly every week. It also has topics of interest based on how far along you are, so I love it already. Thanks Lauren!
I made my first trip to Babies 'R Us and I will NOT be going back without Jay! I can see how I could spend all day (and all our deployment money!) in that place. It's overwhelming and exciting all at the same time. I feel like I've known FOREVER that I was pregnant, and that at the same time, nine months isn't nearly enough time to prepare for a baby!
Thursday, April 10, 2008
Feeling yucky
Today is the first day I really haven't felt well. I felt a little queasy last night, but I think it's just because I took my vitamin (which is giant, by the way) on a not-quite-full stomach. Today I am exhausted and just feel yucky. I was nauseous for a good while, which has put my gym plans for today on hold. I just ate some lunch, and am hoping I feel better soon.
It seems like there's so much to do, and nine months isn't that long! Then again, neither is FOUR months, which is how long I'll have to do much of this with Jay. I don't want to make too many decisions without him, but I'm also nervous about waiting so long to do everything. Pregnancy is exhausting in more ways than one.
It seems like there's so much to do, and nine months isn't that long! Then again, neither is FOUR months, which is how long I'll have to do much of this with Jay. I don't want to make too many decisions without him, but I'm also nervous about waiting so long to do everything. Pregnancy is exhausting in more ways than one.
Wednesday, April 9, 2008
Sometimes, I forget
It's true. There are moments when I have to stop and think, "Am I really pregnant?" There are things I subconsciously do, like eating and drinking things that are better, avoiding accidents and cigarette smoke, watching my step because I'm naturally clumsy. I think because it's SO early and I'm not having morning sickness, cravings or aversions, and clearly I'm not showing yet.
I ran into my doctor today at McDonald's, of all places. I'm glad he caught me eating a chicken sandwich with a salad and water, instead of my old standby (nuggets, fries, Cola light). He recognized me, and I was surprised. I mean, he has a lot of patients and I've only been there once.
I think it's still settling in. A baby?? Wow. Amazing.
I ran into my doctor today at McDonald's, of all places. I'm glad he caught me eating a chicken sandwich with a salad and water, instead of my old standby (nuggets, fries, Cola light). He recognized me, and I was surprised. I mean, he has a lot of patients and I've only been there once.
I think it's still settling in. A baby?? Wow. Amazing.
Tuesday, April 8, 2008
The roller coaster
It's amazing how quickly you go from being so excited to being so scared. I woke up with some cramping last night and experienced fear that was foreign to me. I mean in a very short time I've grown very attached to this tiny being inside me, and to the plans we have for it. The thought of it not being there is a crippling, paralyzing one. I just have to pray that everything is okay, and keep doing what I'm supposed to. It's unnerving, because I know that many pregnancies end in early miscarriage. So I'm caught between this sheer joy of having a baby, and this fear of losing it. I guess it's nature's way of preparing you for parenthood, which I see as one giant fear after another.
Monday, April 7, 2008
Belly bubbles
Soon after I found out I was pregnant, I had a terrible cramping in my lower belly and FREAKED out. After a few rolaids, some deep breaths and my trusty What to Expect... I remembered that I'd had a banana before bed, and that bananas give me indigestion. My book assured me that cramping was normal, as it is everything stretching out in there to make room. Sure enough, a few minutes went by and that cramp was a bubble in the middle of my belly, then a giant burp. All's well that ends well.
I've discovered my stomach is particularly sensitive now that there's a tiny little life added to our daily routine. Still no morning sickness thankfully, but I'm more apt to have indigestion and heartburn...Jay is certainly NOT missing out on much excitement here!
I still have a giant bruise from my first round of bloodwork. Maybe I'll bring that up next time. I have this really great baby organizer book that has a section for obstetrician visits, with room to write questions. Last time I was taking everything in and trying to keep my wits about me, so I was scatterbrained. But I'll be prepared next time!
I've discovered my stomach is particularly sensitive now that there's a tiny little life added to our daily routine. Still no morning sickness thankfully, but I'm more apt to have indigestion and heartburn...Jay is certainly NOT missing out on much excitement here!
I still have a giant bruise from my first round of bloodwork. Maybe I'll bring that up next time. I have this really great baby organizer book that has a section for obstetrician visits, with room to write questions. Last time I was taking everything in and trying to keep my wits about me, so I was scatterbrained. But I'll be prepared next time!
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